Sarah Rot Sarah Rot

Am I Settling? Why the Fear of Settling in a Relationship Is So… Unsettling

The fear of settling in relationships is rampant in our culture, and people who struggle with anxiety and perfectionism are especially prone to its grip. This article offers a fresh perspective on the idea of “settling” in a relationship to help you open up to the idea that settling may not be such a bad thing after all.

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Chelsea Horton Chelsea Horton

Self Sabotage in Relationships

Are you prone to self sabotaging your relationships? Even the really good ones you thought might have a chance to last? If so, you’re in the right place. In this article, we’re talking about the nature of self sabotage in relationships and how it ties into relationship anxiety.

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Chelsea Horton Chelsea Horton

Here’s What’s Really Behind Your Fear of Making the Wrong Decision

Do you ever find yourself panicking over the fear of making the wrong decision? Does your heart rate rise a little bit every time you think about making a big commitment? Does this subtle panic show up as the fear of choosing the wrong partner? If so, you are NOT alone. I see you. I’ve been there. And most importantly, I know that the fear of making the wrong choice doesn’t have to control your life. 

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Chelsea Horton Chelsea Horton

Read This If You Struggle With the Fear of Uncertainty In Your Relationship

Anxiety and OCD thrive on the fear of uncertainty — but uncertainty is an unavoidable part of life. This is how we get caught in anxiety’s trap. But I want to talk about what’s really going on when we get trapped into the fear of uncertainty in our relationships. From there, we begin to understand how to heal and step more fully into our lives and our love.

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